Do You Want to Be Made Well ?
You may have heard the story (a fable to
be sure) about the father who knocks on his son's door. "Jaime," he says, "wake
up!" Jaime answers, "I don't want to get up, Papa."
The father shouts,
"Get up, you have to go to school." Jaime says, "I don't want to go to school."
"Why not?" asks the father. "Three reasons," says Jaime. "First, because it's so
dull; second, the kids tease me; and third, I hate school." And the father says,
"Well, I am going to give you three reasons why you must go to school. First,
because it is your duty; second, because you are forty-five years old, and
third, because you are the headmaster."
Many people say they want to
overcome their problems too, but are not prepared to do their part to make it
happen. Even the best psychologists will tell you that "people don't really want
to be cured. What they want is relief; a cure is too painful." One surgeon said
that many patients who come to him with a problem would rather that he operate
on their body than they operate on their lifestyle, and that only about 25
percent of his patients accept responsibility for their wellness.
To be
made well needs to be more than a wish. It needs to be a true desire, with
determination and commitment to do what one has to do to get well. As a Chinese
proverbs puts it, "Great souls have wills; feeble ones have only wishes."
Do you want to get well … to achieve something worthwhile with your life
… to become happy and fulfilled … and to go to Heaven when you die ? Or do you
just wish all these things ? Remember that wishes don't make it.
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