Perspective

 

An American visitor in England was driving with a British friend who made a remark about the windscreen of his car needing to be cleaned.

"You mean the windshield, don't you?" said the American.

"No. Over here, we call it the windscreen," the Englishman said.

"Then you are wrong," the American corrected, "because we invented the automobile and we call it a windshield."

"That is quite true," countered the Englishman, "but don't forget who invented the language."

All of us see things through the lenses shaped and colored by our background. That is, from our perspective. If we would only realize this, many of us wouldn't be as rigid as we sometimes are.

In conflict situations or where there is a difference of opinion we need to say, "This is the way I see it," and then ask the other person, "And how do you see it?" Not always, but often the truth is somewhere between the two.

Remember, too, it is a very insecure person who is dogmatic, never wrong in his own eyes, and consistently has a neurotic need to be right.

Rising Above Discouragement

"These boys won't make it. Go back to Liverpool, Mr. Epstein, you have a good business there." This is what a recording company executive told the Beatles' manager at their first audition! 

Can you imagine that?

"That kid can't play baseball. He can't pull the ball" is what the manager of the Brave's Triple-A team said about Hank Aaron in 1952. 

Aaron went on to hit 755 home runs, the most ever in the history of baseball.

Remember, no matter what the critics say, in God's economy everybody has a purpose and everybody has something of value to offer. Never give up until you know what your God-given talent is, or talents are, sharpen them, dedicate them to God, and give them all you've got. 

Take courage. Nothing you do for God will ever be in vain.

If what you are choosing to do is in harmony with God's will for you, then dream big dreams, work hard, trust God and in time you will reap what you sow and will be richly rewarded. 

Know your God-given dreams and keep hope alive. In due time you will be rewarded if you "faint not."

Creative Solutions

Ideas can come from the strangest places. Creative genius comes to people who are open to new ideas and seeing different ways of doing things.

For example, in 1964 the freighter Al Kuwait, which was carrying 6,000 live sheep capsized and sank in Kuwait's harbor. The sunken ship with its decomposing cargo was presenting a serious threat to the country's water supply through its desalination processing plant.

To overcome the problem the ship had to be raised and moved to a safe place without falling apart and dumping its poisonous contents into the nation's water supply.

Karl Kroyer, a Danish engineer working in Kuwait came up with a novel idea. He pumped 27 million ping-pong balls into the freighter's hull which slowly raised it to the surface.

And where did he get this idea? From a Donald Duck comic book. Somebody sank Donald's boat and he and his feathered friends raised it by filling it with ping-pong balls!

When it comes to creative and meaningful living, the most valuable resources are found in the Word of God (not always in a comic book), It pays to know what it teaches and hide its truths in one's heart.

Do Your Best

When Leonardo da Vinci was still a pupil, his elderly, well-known teacher asked him to finish a painting that he, the teacher, had begun.

Young da Vinci stood in such awe of his master's skill that at first he respectfully declined. But his teacher would accept no excuse. He simply said, 'Do your best.'

Trembling, da Vinci took his brush and began. With each stroke, his hand grew steadier as the genius within him awoke. Soon he was so caught up in his work that he forgot his timidity. When the painting was finished, the frail and weak master was carried into the studio to see it. Embracing his student, he exclaimed, 'My son, I paint no more!'"

Not everyone has the kind of talent and genius that Leonardo da Vinci had, but every one of us has God-given talents that he wants us to develop and use. So use what talents you possess. Do your best and leave the rest to God. As Henry van Dyke said, "The woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best."

Faith Without Action

Napoleon Hill said, "Whatever the mind can conceive and believe can be achieved."

While this statement sounds rather grandiose, there is certainly a measure of truth in it. It's somewhat similar to "without action faith is useless".

As the old saying goes, you can't steer a ship or a bicycle to go anywhere until they're moving. Zig Ziglar in his book, See You at the Top, put it this way: "The largest locomotive in the world can be held in its tracks while standing still simply by placing a single one-inch block of wood in front of each of the eight drive wheels. The same locomotive moving at 100 miles per hour can crash through a wall of steel reinforced concrete five feet thick."

The important thing is that we get moving!

"Faith without works is dead."

Some people are sitting around waiting for some kind of special call or revelation from God before they get involved in His work. It's not likely to happen because God has already given us lots of instructions in his Word regarding what to do. All we need to do is read these instructions … and start moving into action!

Being Connected

Unfortunately, many people are taught to ignore their negative emotions. As John T. Raffa wrote in Psychology for Living magazine: "They believe you should hide such feelings--deny, deny, deny--and become nothing but a robot instead of what God made us, beings with feelings."

I have always emphasized the need to be honest, to be open-faced, to walk in the light, and to love one another. Repressed people are closed people and are unable to fully love and fully live. Neither can they have any kind of emotional intimacy in close relationships.

Only as we walk in the light, that is, in honesty and openness, are we able to have true fellowship and connection with both God and others. Furthermore, only then are we able to be open channels through which God's love can flow to others, and in so doing will we be able to fully live and fully love.

Dear God
please reveal to me
any and every barrier in my life
that blocks my feeling close to you
and to others
so that I can know true intimacy with you
and the ones I love the most
--and be a vibrant channel
through which
your love to others can flow.

Thank you for hearing and answering my prayerz.

چھوئی موئی، پیرا سائیٹ اور امر بیل

ہائی اسکول کے دنوں کی بات ہے زراعت کو ایک علیحدہ مضمون کے طور پر متعارف کرایا گیا ۔۔ ہمارے لئے اس میں دلچسپی کی ایک وجہ اس کے پریکٹیکل تھے ۔۔ ہمہ رنگ پھول پتے اور کیڑے پریکٹیکل بک کی زینت بنے ۔۔ اسی دوران کسی نے گورنمنٹ کالج جھنگ کے بوٹانیکل گارڈن کی بابت بتایا کہ وہاں کئی قسم کے پھول لگائے گئے ہیں ۔۔ چونکہ گورنمنٹ کالج جھنگ ہمارے گھر کے نزدیک تھا تو صبح سویرے معمول بنا کہ کالج کی سیر کی جائے ۔۔ ابا جی مرحوم ہمیں فجر کے ٹائم اٹھا دیتے اور ہم کالج کے گراونڈ کے چکر لگاتے ہوئے بوٹانیکل گارڈن نکل جاتے ۔۔

ہمیں جو پھول پتے اور جڑی بوٹیاں ان دنوں میں متعارف ہوئیں انہوں نے آنے والی زندگی میں ہمیں بہت سے اصولوں سے روشناس کرایا اور زندگی کے یہ اصول ہماری زندگی میں ہمیشہ قائم رہیں گے - انشااللہ ۔۔

ہم نے ایک بوٹی دیکھی جس کا نام مالی نے چھوئی موئی بتایا ۔۔ ہمیں لگا کہ ہاتھ لگاتے ہی چھوئی موئی ہو جانے والی چیز کو لوگ نہ صرف بار بار ہاتھ لگاتے ہیں بلکہ جب وہ مرجھاتی ہے تو بہت بد ہیئت لگتی ہے ۔۔ اس سے ہمیں "خود پر اعتماد" کا سبق ملا ۔۔

ہم نے دیکھا کہ کچھ کیڑے پتوں کو کھا کر زندہ رہتے ہیں - خود تو نشونما پا کر پلتے ہیں لیکن پتوں کو مار دیتے ہیں ۔۔ ہمارے استاد نے ان کا نام پیرا سائیٹ بتایا ۔۔ بہت غصہ آیا اور تہیہ کیا کہ کبھی ان کیڑوں جیسا نہیں بننا اور نہ ہی ان پتوں جیسا بننا ہے ۔۔ ہمیشہ زندگی میں خود محنت کر کے نام بنایا اور کام کی عظمت کے مزے بھی چکھے ۔۔

ہم نے ایک بیل دیکھی جو دیواروں پر چڑھ کر پھیلتی جاتی ہے اور دیوار کا رنگ بدل دیتی ہے ۔۔ اس کا نام امربیل معلوم پڑا ۔۔ سبق لیا کہ کبھی کسی کو اپنے اوپر سوار مت ہونے دو کہ وہ تمہاری شناخت ہی ختم کر دے ۔۔

پھول کی طرح پر اعتماد رہیے اور خوشبو اور رنگ بکھیرتے رہیئے، تاہم اپنے کانٹے تیار اور تیزدھار  رکھیے ۔۔ لوگوں کے روئیے جائیے اور پیرا سائیٹس سے بچیے، تناور درخت بنیے جو موسموں کی سختیاں سہہ کر بھی سایہ دیتا ہے اور اپنی شناخت بناییے ۔۔  
      
Have A Blessed Sunday ..

The Beauty and Meaning of Life

In speaking about the meaning and purpose of life, one insightful writer said, "It is not about writing great books, amassing great wealth, achieving great power. It is about loving and being loved. It is about savoring the beauty of moments that don't last, the sunsets, the leaves turning color, the rare moments of true human communication."

The essence of life is not in power, performance, or possessions but in loving relationships--both with people around and with God--and in appreciating the beauty of His creation, and fulfilling His purpose for our lives.

Dear God,
give me the wisdom
to understand
that the beauty
and true meaning of life is not found
in power, performance, or possessions
but in loving relationships
the human heart yearns for,
and in loving and serving You.

Thank you for hearing and answering my prayerz.

Don't Waste Your Pain--Invest It

In almost every trial we face, God is seeking to "tell" us something. Sometimes, the only time He can get our attention is when we're hurting sufficiently to slow us down so we will stop and listen.

That has certainly been true in my life.

On one occasion, God used an accident and a time in the hospital to get my attention and to speak to me. The decision I made as a result ended up radically changing the total course of my life.

Another time God used a major crisis and loss to expand my work. He used another emotional setback to get me started in writing. That was apprx two decades ago and I'm still writing!

When you are hurting, you can be sure that God has something to say to you too--something for your good. Ask Him to help you hear what it is and to give you the courage to do what He is telling leading you to do. Whatever it is, you can be certain it will enrich your life in one way or another.

Furthermore, whatever you do, don't waste your pain. Invest it in your own growth and then in helping another fellow struggler along the way.

Dear God ..
please help me
to see how you want to use all the trials
that come my way
to help me grow
and change my life for the better.

And please help me
never to waste my pain
but to invest it wisely
in my own growth
and in making me
a more effective helper
to other fellow strugglers.

Thank you for hearing and answering my prayerz.

God

God shows Himself to us through creation.

In My Search for the Ultimate, research scientist Lambert Dolphin Jr. writes, "Confronted every day with the mysteries of space and the atom, I continue to be amazed at the complexity and order of our universe. From the sub-microscopic realm of the atom to the expanding reaches of the galaxies, our universe runs like intricate and well-oiled clockwork according to great physical laws which never change or falter.

"Our sun, which is the nearest star, a hundred earth diameters across, is 93 million miles into space. Each day the sun supplies our solar system with heat, power and light at the rate of a million billion, billion horsepower! Yet it is only an average star.

"Our island universe of stars which we call the Milky Way is 100,000 light years across. If we could travel at the speed of light (186,000 miles per second), it would take us 100,000 years to traverse the Milky Way!

Yet this is only one of a billion or more such island universes stretched out in every direction from our earth to distances measured in billions of light years."

However, one doesn't need to be a scientist to see and feel the greatness of creation all around us.

"Did all this happen by chance?" I ask myself. For me it would take more faith to believe that than to believe that our world and universe were created by a Master Designer whose power and greatness are beyond human understanding.

Anselm, the famous Italian theologian who lived in the eleventh century, stated that the idea of God in the mind is proof that God exists. Pascal, the French physicist and philosopher who lived in the seventeenth century, spoke about the "God-shaped vacuum in every life that only God can fill."

In life we all see and believe basically what we want to see and believe. If we want to see and believe in God, we can. It is our sin that has separated us from God and prevented us from finding him.